"When I think about Domination I think about the conscious use of power.  

As a Dom my role is to bring to light the unseen aspects of control, unconscious patterning and the shadow behaviors around expression; to play in the dark with the consciousness of the light.

In working with you as my Sub the space I hold for you is twofold; a space for your exploration and transformation.

Exploration can be a time for diving deep into fantasy with openness to even the most obscure.  A place to play with ease, a place to embrace your perverse.

The container is set with consciousness around guiding you into the blue of the flame of an experience, cellular memory or sometimes trauma, but this time you have choice, sovereignty and voice; this time you get to choose by choosing to submit to me.

You get to choose to be fully held in the helplessness, in the surrender.  To re-write the story, to re-wire their brain, psyche and nervous system.  You decide to play in the realm of the unknown, of the powerless, of the inflicted, while at the same time knowing you are ultimately holding the key.  With just one word, just one action, just one step toward empowerment you re-wire your inner-workings and I guide, facilitate and hold space for this and for you.

The play is real and something I approach with reverence and respect. 

"Play in the dark with the consciousness of the light" -Panthera

Before professional domination I explored intently in dominance and submission, exploring what it meant to me and those I chose to play with.  What moral and ethical responsibilities I would hold and how I could be most responsible in the space and with my Submissive's.

I invested a great deal of time, finances and emotional labor into navigating the world of BDSM as a dominant, a sub and a switch so I could have an expanded and embodied inner-standing.  I studied with some of the worlds top rope artists, buried myself in research of kink safety, psyche and consent.  I dove into a world that both fascinated me and lit me up and still does to this day.  

I truly love what I do and that is because ultimately I am acting as a catalyst for depth and transformation, transformation I have lived myself.  Empathetic at heart, I not only often feel my subs but, through experience, I also know what it’s like to be on the other side. I know the fear, the fight, the surrender, the ecstasy, that can come from Submission to conscious Domination.  Invaluably, this schooling informs every scene I create and how I navigate the world in each moment.

A lifelong learner I blend my university studies of Anthropology and Psychology with my world studies of human connection to craft educated and Compassionately Cruel play. 

And this is what I hold for my Subs.

To succumb to the subspace knowing we are here together with a shared commonality of connection, trust and transmutation.  Knowing that that you are held, witnessed and nurtured in the roaring fire.

My passion lays in bringing my subs into true surrender.  Sometimes this comes from the sensuous, sometimes the intense; whichever it is it comes from a willingness to be real together.  

And that’s what I request from you.

Do not take lightly that deep spaces take time and commitment on your part.  Vulnerability, authenticity and structured regimen are necessary.  Long sessions and dedicated scheduling best allow for this.  I devote time, energy and emotional labor, for you.  Recognize, respect, reciprocate.  Gratitude.  Invest.  Appreciate.

Submit, Serve, Worship.

I am here to tear you apart in all the best ways and ultimately build you better always."

See you in the dark

-Panthera